W is for Who. You have to want to get clean and sober for you.
You need to find what is good for you. I went to meetings to heard others share, and through them, I found myself. It wasn't about who they where, but who I was or had been, and had lost along my journey to get to the doors of recovery.
We need to find own God, and build a relationship with the God of your understanding, who will lead, guide and direct you on your road to recovery.