Before we got to recovery the way we all have been living with having this problem has caused us more trouble then the problem itself does. By getting into recovery we'll start to be able to see this, and begin to separate how we react to having this problem from the problem itself, and when we do we're going to be in for a very pleasant surprise. Because we found that having this problem and learning to live with it isn't as bad as we thought it would be, and that it's how we've all been reacting to having this problem that's been causing us all the trouble we've been going through. We just didn't know how to live with having this problem. Recovery will show us how many who have this problem have found a way to live it without it causing them any trouble whatsoever. The only question we have got to ask ourselves is do I want that for myself ?