There's no way to make someone recover. If they're attracted to the program that's good, but if they're not then they're not ready. Attraction and liking the program of recovery in this case are two different things. None of us have ever thought of liking the proposed steps of the program of recovery, yet some of us are still attracted to the program and take the steps while others don't. One thing for sure no one knows who will get recovery it seems it's not up to us no matter how hard we wished it to be. But we also know that when someone has an attraction to recovery little gets in the way of them getting it. We can find our attraction by our honesty about the program by asking ourselves do we want what they have ?