How We've All Been Affected

[roverl0616]

The way this problem is seen by all of us who have it, is different for all of us, and how it has affected each of us is different as well. Seeing this problem is difficult for anyone who has it, but is key to us being able to do something about having it, so that all of us can learn how to live with this problem. What helps us to be able to do this, so that we can see we have this problem is through identification with someone else has been primarily affected in the same way it has affected us. This allows for all of us to be able to see our problem for ourselves, without the normal upheaval we all got when we try seeing this on our own. That is why recovery groups are formed by how this problem has primarily affected us, so that we're able to identify with having it. Because we have this problem we all qualify for any recovery group that may be out there, but we'll only be able to identify with a group where everyone in it has been affected primarily in the same way that this problem has affected us.