Daily Motivator - March

[willbe275]

I just dropped a $20 donation off to you, I know its
been a while since I've done that.
Thank you Tammy for all you do, correct me if I'm wrong,
I think I've been following you ever since the early 90s.
First learned about the daily recovery reading page
at a retreat in Pennsylvania, at a Matt Talbot Retreat, at
the time I had 7 years, enough said.
God bless you and have a awesome week.

[willbe275]

Hey my awesome friend Tammy
how do I change my profile?
I'm no longer in New York, I now resident
in Petersburg Virginia for the past two years

[bluidkiti]

Thank you willbe. I appreciate your help and support. I first came online in AA in December 1997 in an AA chatroom. I started out with the username blukiti (blue kitty) because of how my life was at the time but within the week I changed it to bluidkiti (blue eyed kitty) and have been know as that online ever since then. I put up my first recovery web page January 1998. I started putting the recovery readings together and posting the readings online in 1999 on a friend's message board and started sending the readings out in email in the Spring of 2000. I started helping other friends on their message boards and then eventually ventured out and got my own message board. I bought the domain name cyberrecovery.net in 2003 and sold it in 2009. I have owned several recovery websites but sold them eventually as I got older to make things easier and have this one now, bluidkiti.com, recoveryreadings.com and christianrecoveryreadings.com.

I changed your location for you. I hope you have a great day!

[bluidkiti]

March 25

Ocean of reality

In the world is a good place to be. Spend plenty of time there.

Ideas, concepts, memories and dreams entice you and provide their own kind of essential value. Yet living in the embodied reality of here and now is even more crucial to your existence.

Reality always serves as a source of great richness. Though it surely holds vexing challenges, it also can deliver unique rewards in every interaction.

Your existence is more than a mere abstraction. You have so much to discover, experience, and fulfill in the extraordinary world of which you’re a part.

Think your best thoughts, make your best plans, dwell on your most treasured values. Then put those thoughts into action and bring their good consequences to life.

Boldly set sail each day on the deep, wide, demanding and energizing ocean of reality. You have some amazing destinations to reach.

— Ralph Marston

[willbe275]

Thank you Tammy, like I
Said we have been together
By God grace a nice little while
God bless, I will never forget when
Your cat went missing, your heart
was broken, I remember praying
For his return, which never happened
the cool part you were not alone.
God bless you my dear awesome friend and sister in the Lord.

[bluidkiti]

March 26

Up your game

Here again is an opportunity to up your game. No matter how many times you’ve ignored that opportunity lately, today you can go forward with it.

Up your game, improve your effectiveness, enjoy the satisfaction and tangible rewards of doing so. Make it challenging enough to give you a noticeable push past your complacency, but not so much that you end up discouraged.

Stride forth a little faster, with a bit more confidence. Prolong your focus, extend your patience, strengthen your discipline.

For what you’re already good at doing, explore ideas for becoming better. Where your interest is not yet matched by your competence, seek to learn and commit to practice.

The good things in your life become even more valuable when you up your game. Challenges and obstacles lose their ability to overwhelm you.

Gain access to new possibilities by skillfully utilizing the possibilities you already have. Choose now to up your game, and allow the world to benefit from your good choice.

— Ralph Marston

[bluidkiti]

March 27

Go with purpose

Zero in on a purpose and suddenly your energy level skyrockets. Determine a way to be useful and you’ve found a way to experience satisfaction.

Pleasure and convenience are fine but they don’t sustain your spirit. Skill and competence are great but when they’re not applied you become apathetic.

The path away from apathy, boredom, frustration, and lethargy begins with purpose. Focus on a specific objective with a compelling reason and you become the best version of yourself.

The best times are not the easiest times. The best times are the most purposeful times.

Aim yourself well and you will live well. Be clear on the reason and you can do amazing work.

What particular challenge can you traverse that will bring great value to your corner of the world? Lock your arms around that purpose and go with it.

— Ralph Marston

[bluidkiti]

March 28

Pick a path

It’s good to keep your options open for a while. But at some point, for the options to be of any value, you must commit to one.

The point of choices is not to maintain them indefinitely. The point is to act on the best of those choices, transforming them into experience, achievement, and richness.

Being afraid to make the wrong selection is precisely the wrong selection. It is a case of your fear creating the thing you fear.

Be thankful for the many options available to you. Then settle on one and make it work.

It won’t be perfect, but then none of the others would have been either. Rather than second guessing your choice, do what is necessary to ensure that it becomes a good choice.

Pick a path and start walking on it, leaving the others behind. That’s the way to actually get somewhere.

— Ralph Marston

[bluidkiti]

March 29

Love what you’re doing

It is all and ever in motion. New wonders never stop coming into existence as others draw to a close.

How do you focus enough to be immersed in the flow without being distracted by your effort to focus? It is with love for where you are and what you’re doing.

Let yourself love the moment, the details, the process, the situation. You have plenty of love to give, so allow it to pour into all that surrounds you and occupies you.

Discover that there is no need of going to great lengths in seeking to do what you love. Because you can always choose to love what you’re doing.

Abandon assumptions that anything is too tedious, too complicated, too inconvenient, too this or too that. Just see that you can transform it into an experience of love.

Open yourself to the miraculous now in which you always exist. Love what is, as it enters your awareness, and flow along with it to wondrous realms.

— Ralph Marston

[bluidkiti]

March 30

Never a victim

You never have to see yourself as a victim. You always have the option to take full responsibility for your own life.

That’s not the easiest option, particularly in the short term. But over time, as years and experiences accumulate, it’s your best option.

Countless forces affect every aspect of your existence. The vast majority of them are far beyond your ability to control or even influence.

Yet although you cannot stop a speeding train, it’s a fairly simple matter to avoid standing in front of one. Rather than seeing and positioning yourself as a victim, there are plenty of good things you can do.

You can pay attention to what benefits your life and what harms it, and act accordingly. You can notice which people and situations encourage and support you, and can choose often to be in their presence.

You can start with the assumption that your life is your responsibility, and then act upon that assumption in every situation. Do that, and even in a precarious, uncertain world, you’ll never have to accept the role of helpless victim.

— Ralph Marston

[bluidkiti]

March 31

Highest hopes

Give yourself hope by doing something hopeful. Put the best part of yourself into action and immediately experience the improvement in your outlook.

Rather than defaulting to a tired, old, empty habit, call upon your creativity. Dwell on what you love, then seek to express that love through time, effort, and commitment.

Every day is filled with opportune moments. Be ready and willing to seize upon the next one that surely will soon arrive.

Immediately in front of you is the possibility of encountering genuine beauty, wonder, and awe. Be open to the possibility, be available to give yourself over to it.

Dreary expectations make for dreary experiences. Raise those expectations, inject hope and goodness into them.

How much time and work, commitment and persistence would you put forth if you knew it would all make a difference? It will, as you well know from looking back on your past, so act upon your highest hopes right now.

— Ralph Marston